There is only one true and wise God...and it is not us. I know we seem to think that we are in control because we have been given by God to think and analyze and rationalize...and so forth. But in all honestly, the greatness of our thinking is nothing compared to God's. He God is the only one who is True and God is the only one who is Wise to handle all of our mess. And mess it is.
Seeking the face of God is the only way to really get through the muck and mire we find ourselves in. Being captured by the Spirit of God is the only way to be comforted in our fears. Let's leave the control to the Lord. Let us just rest in the decisions the One True and Wise God has made for us.